I had a lot of thoughts making this, but I guess the one which I ended up wanting to express was “being dfab and nonbinary and/or trans doesn’t mean you hate women or hate feminine things,” and also “you can be dfab and ultra femme and still not a girl, or not 100% any which way”
I saw it implied in the past that dfab trans folk are only that way because society hates women and they’ve internalized that, and so they’re trying to free themselves from that role, and that always bothered me so much
I could go on about it, but basically When It Comes to Gender Things, the possibilities are endless, isn’t the universe grand
